How to Teach an Old Dog New Tricks: Practice!
Nov 10th
Dear Inquisitive Canine:
My dog Andrew is an 8-year-old Boston terrier and, in almost all regards, is the perfect dog. I knew that training a dog was honestly the most important thing that I could do, to provide him protection. Andrew did great in all of the classes. He learned all of his tricks, minded perfectly and seemed to benefit from what was expected. The problem is that Andrew seemed to have a mind of his own outside of the class.
Certified professional dog trainer Joan Mayer and her sidekick, Poncho
Andrew doesn’t come when called by name in the house or out of the house. He doesn’t listen to the commands “stop” or “stay” unless you have a treat in front of him — and only inside the house. I can’t open a door without securing him, and I worry every time anyone comes in the house or leaves the house that he will run out the door.
It is a constant worry that he will go out that door and that I would never be able to stop or catch him. Even on a leash outside he doesn’t listen. It’s almost as if his hormones take over and he loses all brain connection when out in the world.
I have consulted with animal communicators and other well-known trainers, and still nothing changes. As an animal guardian, I want to be the best parent I can be. Please help.
— Andrew’s mom
Dear mom of Andrew:
Bravo for being such a responsible and caring dog guardian! You started Andrew out on the right paw by attending classes, recognized behavioral concerns and made efforts to resolve them. You deserve a treat yourself. Thank you for writing in.
I will be happy to provide some insight into resolving some of your issues. My sidekick Poncho decided he wanted to provide some dog training tips as well. Please check out his Inquisitive Canine blog post on what he has learned about coming when called.
The topics I’d like to address have to do with both management of your environment and with dog training tips that will help utilize what Andrew already has learned in class. Both elements are important, because when you’re not training you need to manage to help prevent unwanted situations.
In your case, management has to do with securing Andrew’s environment in order to help prevent him from practicing behaviors you don’t want — such as door dashing and taking off down the street. This means doors must remain closed, gates installed to block doorways, leashes to keep Andrew tethered to you, or sequestering him to an area of the house away from escape routes during those times when there’s an increased risk of someone leaving a door open.
As a side note, if Andrew is going to be sequestered somewhere for longer than a minute or two, you’ll want to provide some sort of enrichment such as an interactive food toy or chew bone. You want to avoid turning a management situation into a timeout.
As for training tips, it’s wonderful that you’ve already taught Andrew his foundation skills in a class. Now it’s time to take those behaviors outside the classroom. What is the best way to do this? Simple: Practice each one before you need them!
Similar to when we were kids learning all about fire, earthquake and tornado drills, you’ll want to run Andrew through his behavior drills over and over again in various locations in and out of your home until he becomes “conditioned” to hearing your cues such as “sit” and “stay.”
With enough practice, he’ll react accordingly without even thinking about it. Once he is able to “generalize” these actions, you can then add in one distraction at a time. This will make it easier on him and less frustrating for you while setting you both up for success.
For additional steps you can take to teach Andrew doorway manners, please check out this Inquisitive Canine column on greeting people politely at the front door.
Another dog training tip I’d like to bring up is motivation. All animals (including the human variety) need motivation to perform behaviors. Whether it’s something we want or something we want to avoid, motivation and consequences are what drive us to make behavior choices. For Andrew, right now the environment is much more motivating than the alternative — not getting to run around and play. So you’ll want to consider the best way to motivate him in wanting to stay with you, stay within the boundaries you’ve set and come when he’s called.
I appreciate that you’re already using treats. I’d suggest for keeping Andrew motivated under highly distracting situations that you use food treats that he would do back-flips over! Small pieces of chicken or even fish might motivate him to stay and play. You can then redirect his energy to playing indoors — fetch or tug would be good energy outlets that would still keep him safe inside your home. Plus, with toys, you’re able to direct him to the opposite area of the front door. In other words, toss the toy in the opposite direction of the door. Once he’s had the practice and has become conditioned to the routine, you can then use fetch or tug as his reward with food treats.
I appreciate that you want to be “the best parent” you can be, and as much as we’d all love to have dogs that are always 100 percent, no animal is perfect under every situation each and every time. But with proper training, practice and motivation, Andrew could certainly learn that listening to you is much more fun and rewarding.
Teaching Your Dog to Come When Called – Should be music to your dogs ears…
Nov 1st
Our latest Dear Inquisitive Canine dog behavior advice question comes from a responsible dog mom who has concerns about her dog Andrew dashing out the door. (Door dashing is considered a fun sport amongst us canines).
My certified professional dog trainer mom, and fellow dog behavior advice columnist decided to take care of the home management, enrichment and greeting at doors etiquette while I thought it would be best for this inquisitive canine to handle the running back to my mom when I’m called, AKA “recall” AKA “coming when called.”
Mom uses the same dog training tips and techniques with me as she teaches to students in her Ventura dog training classes and workshops, and with her private dog training clients. They were pretty easy and fun for me to learn, so I thought I’d share them with Andrew and his mom, as well as with our Inquisitive Canine readers.
- Be happy when you call us: I love when mom uses her happy voice – it means she’s in a good mood and loves me up when I arrive. She knows that using a deep angry voice will cause me to ignore her wishes! Just like when her mom or dad were upset with her as a child she learned a certain tone of voice predicted nothing good for her. I learned the same thing. No matter what I’ve done, she always loves when I come running to her – so she knows which tone of voice and which facial expression will prompt me to run towards her and not away from her.
- Only call us if you know you’re going to get the response you want: Otherwise it’s a waste of your breath which leads you to be more frustrated with your dog. If us dogs are in the middle of playing, chasing something or rolling in something dead, do you really think we’re going to come running to you if you’ve never taught us to do so? I think not. This means…
- Practice-practice-practice! First with no distractions, then build up one distraction at a time! Until your dog becomes conditioned to run to you immediately after calling him or her one time, it’s unlikely to happen.
- Motivation! Give your dog a great reason to come running to you. And remember, if you’re calling him or her at a time when the other motivator is highly competitive then you’ll want to make the reason for running to you worthwhile. My personal favorites are pieces of tuna, a fun training exercise like the ones in our Out of the Box Dog Training Game, and playing fetch with my stuffed squeaky toys. Mom just redirects the energy to a rewarding outlet!
As mom says, “Practice it before you need it!” This means, get out there and start calling your dog to you, because this is one of those behaviors that never goes out of style!
Inquisitive Canine: Jack Is Quick to Jump the Fence
Aug 6th
Hi, Joan:
I have a dog named Jack who has an issue with jumping our backyard fence. We ride bikes everyday, so it isn’t an exercise issue. We’ve also tried everything to make him stop, including using an electric fence, which he seems to laugh at.
He always comes back and lays in the front yard, but he runs away when we try to get him back in the house. Treats don’t work, chasing doesn’t work and tempting him with a car ride (which he loves) doesn’t work — and is actually dangerous because he runs beside it. We also have tried getting the bikes out — no luck. Sitting in the yard and being calm, with treat in hand, waiting for him to come doesn’t work. It is a real problem.
Luckily, all of the neighbors and their dogs love him and Jack isn’t aggressive, but we live by busy streets and so I am very afraid he will get hit by a car. It is very frustrating. Got any ideas?
— Thanks, Dee Ann Deaton
Hello, Dee Ann:
My oh my, it sounds like Jack is nimble, quick and living up to the “Love thy neighbor” policy. From what you’ve described, it appears you’ve been an inquisitive dog guardian, doing all you can to problem solve the situation, and I appreciate your efforts.
As a certified professional dog trainer, I have worked with many dog guardians to find solutions for keeping their globetrotting pooches safe and secure.
It’s first important to create an inviting environment to help motivate Jack to stay on his own property. Here are some ways to accomplish this:
» While Jack is still learning to stay in the yard, he should always be supervised when left outside. Leaving such decisions to his own devices might result in a round of fence jumping. Setting him up for success is the best way to avoid disappointment, and is key to successful dog training.
» Create an enriching environment in your own home and yard so Jack will prefer to stay put. Scavenger hunts, interactive food toys, chewies, bones and even a digging pit can all be placed in your own yard for Jack’s entertainment. You’ll also want to make sure he is experiencing fun times with family members at home — not just on a bike ride. If you’re so inclined, you might want to arrange doggy play dates at your home so his friends come to your place instead of him having to set up his own rendezvous.
» See if it’s possible to build a higher fence or plant a hedge where you live. This is a management step that may help prevent him from independently taking a tour of the neighborhood.
Dog training tips for coaching Jack to stay in the yard:
» Teach Jack what the correct choice is and reward him for remaining on your property. Using high-value yummy food treats — ask your vet about pieces of human foods such as lean chicken, steak, fish, pork etc. — or whatever motivation works best to positively reinforce desired behaviors from your dog. While a professional dog trainer can help you analyze the rewards you’re using, there are also some simple things you can do to discover what motivates your dog.
» You’ll initially want to reward this wanted behavior frequently. Once Jack is conditioned to stay in the yard, you can then reward him intermittently to ensure you’ve acknowledged he is making good choices. Remember, we can never be thanked enough for doing something someone else wants — especially when it’s as difficult as not going out to spend time playing with friends and neighbors.
» Train necessary behaviors: “Coming when called” and “Leave it!” might be two behaviors that would come in handy should Jack take off. Using the first one if he takes off, and if he doesn’t come back then use your backup cue “Leave it!” This is the cue I use for when I want a dog to stop what he or she is doing and come to me. If you’ve ever taught Jack to “touch target,” you could use that as well — keeping a target in your hand (or targeting your hand itself) while he comes and touches it with his paw or nose.
Your home and neighborhood sound quite appealing — no wonder Jack wants to head out and be with his friends. With a little planning, training and forethought, you should be able to motivate Jack to stay and play in your own home.
— Dear Inquisitive Canine is written by Joan Mayer and her trusty sidekick, Poncho. If you or your dog have questions about behavior, training or life with each other, feel free to email them directly.
Dog Training Tips for Door-Dashing Dogs
Jun 21st
My friend Colleen Mihelich, owner and founder of Peternity and awesome dog-mom to Romeo was asking me about the subject of “door dashing”. Seems like Romeo enjoys the sport of taking off out the front door, with emphasis on RUN!
As a certified professional dog trainer, I hear this from many dog training class students and private dog training clients, and I’d have to agree that this is one canine sport that is common to the species overall. This is yet another reason I created my Out of the Box Dog Training Game – so people like Colleen can train their dog behaviors they want while making it fun!
So, what is an inquisitive canine guardian to do? The following are a few suggestions based on our Inquisitive Canine Top-10 Dog Training Tips I have sent to Colleen to help her teach Romeo some important (and sometimes life saving) door etiquette skills.
The overall basic dog obedience behaviors: (This answers the first two “top-10 dog training tips” questions)
- Sit, stand or down with a stay at the front door while it’s open (this is the final goal behavior, not what you start with.
- Come when called – to back up #1 = “Come over to me please.”
- Leave-it! back-up to first two = “Stop what you’re doing and get over here.”
Steps to reach these goals successfully: (This answers 3-9 “top-10 dog training tips” questions)
- Teach Romeo sit/down/stand (any will work) with a “stay”. This goes along with a solid recall (coming when called) and a leave-it! If he already knows these behaviors, then add one distraction in at a time, not all at once.
- Create simple baby-steps for Romeo and yourself to help ensure you set yourselves up for success!
- Practice practice practice! Dog training is a physical and mental skill (of both human and dog) – as I always say to my dog training students (myself included): “Teach the behavior before you need the behavior!”
- Manage: Use a leash for when you introduce opening the door – this way, just in case something entices Romeo to charge out the door, you’ve set yourselves up for safety and success. If you need to keep the door open and can’t take the time to train, manage Romeo’s environment with baby gates, doors, leashes.
- Continue to use positive reinforcement! Reward what you want and do it often! Ignoring running out the door is one of those behaviors I always reward for – food, belly rubs, a game of fetch – This can be considered a “life saving” behavior, so I appreciate when any dog chooses to ignore running out – Poncho included.
- Always use a happy voice when training, especially when you’re asking your dog to “come when called”.
- Refrain from punishment: Can you use a time-out for door dashing? Hmm, I guess you could, but it still wouldn’t teach him what you want. Also, he might begin to develop better skills for running out.
- Make sure Romeo has satisfied his innate doggy need to run and play. If he’s a bit tired, it might likely help from him running off (not always the case though, so don’t rely on a round of exercise to solve the problem).
Techniques for teaching your dog what you want:
- Using the Lure-Reward technique is the easiest (for both human and dog) for getting the behaviors you want. You can check out the thorough explanation here in my downloadable dog training eBook Setting Yourself Up For Success!
- Reward your dog for continuing to perform the behavior you want, before he jumps up! This will help build your “stay”.
- Allow Romeo to figure it out: Butt on ground (or in down-stay) makes rewards happen, running off = no more play time.
Finally, I cannot emphasize how important it is to manage your front door. Tape a BIG NOTE up there to remind people to keep the door closed. You can reward people for keeping the door closed and Romeo safe. You can get a screen too if you don’t already have one.
No matter how much you train Romeo, even to 99.9% proof positive, there is still that 0.1% that he will want to take off. Nothing is 100% (except the fact that he’s a dog and enjoys running).
A Useful Approach to Listening to Your Dog is Simple Observation
Mar 3rd
A recent Dear Inquisitive Canine reader asked about her beagle Bill and his enjoyment of playing with larger dogs. I explained the similarities of how humans of different shapes and sizes can learn to play with one another without getting hurt. The best way to tell is to pay attention to his body language. He will “tell” you if he is enjoying it or not very clearly, you just need to be watchful of the signals he is sending. To view the complete article, check out our Dear Inquisitive Canine column.
Regarding this readers comments of how she described Bill’s behavior, I wanted to add this about what to watch for:
From what you’ve described it appears you have a very keen eye for details of Bill’s body language and that you’re “listening” to what he is saying. I say bravo! He’s excited to play with the larger dogs and appears bored with the smaller dogs. Although I haven’t witnessed their romping social functions myself, I’d like to first address your comments “hardly pays attention to us, and becomes the center of attention as he runs around with a pack of big dogs playfully chasing him all over.”
- Make sure you are still the center of Bill’s universe. He can certainly run off and play with his friends, but work on a nice “coming when called” so he learns to check in with you more often. It’ll be rewarding for him, while enhancing the bond you share. Plus, if you need him to come back to you, for whatever reason, he’s more likely to want to. For additional information on teaching your dog to come when called, check out these dog training tips on Recall.
- Make sure Bill isn’t being targeted or ganged up on. Even if he keeps going back for more, sometimes horseplay leads to tragedy (as our mothers taught us). One dog can end up being the recipient of all that exuberant doggy energy. You’ll want to make sure the dogs are interrupting themselves, or you interrupt before the energy takes them past the point of no return. Note: you’ll want to check with the daycare staff that play is being monitored carefully for appropriate play.
I have to say this dog guardian was superb on watching our for her dog Bill, as well as “listening” to what he was saying. I would nominate her to be the dog park playground monitor if she were ever interested






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